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Systems Love Uniformity. I Never Did.

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  image generated by AI Most people grow up learning where the edges of the box are. I grew up walking past them without noticing they were supposed to matter. It wasn’t rebellion. It wasn’t defiance. It was simply that the box never made sense to me—too small, too rigid, too uninterested in the particularities that make a person who they are. I didn’t know there was a box until other people told me I had stepped out of it. The First Prism In elementary school, the science fair was a parade of store‑bought kits: sleek prisms, polished mirrors, tidy instructions. I showed up with a handful of homemade prisms—pieces of window glass, cut into triangles, and, as I discovered in the process was needed in order to control and direct the angle of the refraction, covered on both sides with black construction paper. They worked! Of course. They were based on the function of light. I made them myself, together with my science fair partner, because we had no money to buy a fancy kit (those ki...

Free for one more day: An Afternoon's Dictation (Greenebaum)

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  The award-winning book,  An Afternoon's Dictation  (Greenebaum), is available free from Kindle countdown April 12-17. Book Description:  In 1999 Steven Greenebaum felt he'd hit the wall. Fifty years old, he could not make sense of his life or the world around him. For several months he angrily demanded answers from God, if God were there. One afternoon, an inner voice told him to get a pen and paper and write. Steven then took dictation - three pages, not of commandments but guidance for leading a meaningful life.   An Afternoon's Dictation  grapples with, organizes, and deeply explores the revelations Steven received and then studied for over ten years. His sharing is NOT offered as the only possible way to understand it the dictation. It is offered, rather, as a start. The book's sections include deep explorations into "The Call to Interfaith," "The Call to Love One Another," "The Call to Justice," and "The Call to Community."...

The Challenges of an ADHD Parent — and Strategies for Managing

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  Parenting with ADHD is like juggling while someone keeps adding balls. You love fiercely, you try endlessly, and yet the ordinary tasks of parenting — schedules, meals, homework, appointments — can feel like a marathon with no finish line. It’s not that ADHD parents care less. They often care too much , pouring energy into bursts of creativity and connection, then collapsing under the weight of logistics. The same brain that makes them imaginative and empathetic also makes them forgetful and impulsive. The result is a constant dance between brilliance and overwhelm. The daily challenges Time blindness: mornings vanish, evenings arrive too soon, and deadlines sneak up like ambushes. Emotional intensity: small frustrations feel enormous; guilt arrives quickly and stays too long. Executive overload: remembering forms, appointments, and school events requires a system that rarely stays intact. Sensory overload: noise, clutter, and constant demands can trigger shutdowns or irri...