The Three Hs: How Humility, Hubris, and Humor Show Up in Weak and Strong Leaders
Leadership isn’t just about decisions; it’s about disposition. The Three Hs—Humility, Hubris, and Humor—tell you whether a leader’s strength is real or performative. 1. Humility Weak leaders mistake humility for weakness. They avoid it because it threatens their image of authority. When they do display it, it’s strategic—performed to appear relatable. Strong leaders live humility as awareness, not apology. They know their limits, invite expertise, and treat correction as collaboration. Humility in strong leaders says, “I’m confident enough to learn.” In weak leaders, it says, “I’m pretending to listen.” 2. Hubris Weak leaders use hubris as armor. They inflate their certainty, dismiss dissent, and confuse dominance with respect. Strong leaders recognize hubris as a warning sign. They keep ambition tethered to accountability and success anchored in service. Hubris blinds weak leaders to reality. Strong leaders use self‑awareness to keep ambition in focus. 3. Humor Weak leade...