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This week's editor's choice: Road to Damascus (Imady)

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  This week's editor's choice is  Road to Damascus , by Elaine Imady. The book is part can't-put-it-down love story, part cross-cultural insights, part parenting, and part a personal view of Syrian history. Written by the American wife of a foreign student at Columbia University who returned home to Damascus, American wife in tow, and became a beloved leading figure in the building of the financial world of Syria.  This book provides an intriguing and rare look inside modern day Syria and a cross-cultural marriage that worked when so many others have failed.  Book Description: Recommended by US Review of Books and First Runner-Up in the Eric Hoffer Awards legacy competition, Road to Damascus describes the Middle Eastern journey of an American who meets and falls in love with a Syrian when they are both attending school in New York. Giving up her country and her religion to follow her husband back to Syria, Elaine Imady has made a life that has successfully bridg...

What Does PTSD Look Like? Is It the Same for All Wars?

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  When people hear the term post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) , they often picture a narrow set of images: a veteran startled by loud noises, waking from nightmares, or withdrawing into silence. These images aren’t wrong—but they are incomplete. PTSD is not a single, uniform experience, and it does not look the same across individuals, conflicts, or generations. The Core of PTSD: A Nervous System That Won’t Stand Down At its heart, PTSD is not about memory alone—it’s about the body’s survival system remaining “on” long after the danger has passed. The brain has learned that the world is unsafe, and it refuses to fully power down. This can show up in several broad ways: Re-experiencing : intrusive memories, flashbacks, nightmares Avoidance : steering clear of places, people, or even thoughts that trigger memories Hyperarousal : being constantly on edge, easily startled, unable to relax Emotional changes : guilt, anger, numbness, or a persistent sense of detachment ...

Parenting a Family with Multiple Neurodiverse Children

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  Parenting one neurodiverse child changes how you see the world. Parenting several rewrites it entirely. Each child brings a different rhythm — one thrives on structure, another resists it; one needs quiet, another needs motion; one processes emotion through words, another through silence. The parent becomes translator, conductor, and advocate all at once, trying to build harmony from overlapping melodies. It’s not chaos; it’s complexity. And complexity can be beautiful when understood. The daily reality Families with multiple neurodiverse children live in constant adaptation. Schedules bend around therapies, sensory needs, and energy levels. Communication shifts between literal and abstract, verbal and visual. Emotions run high — empathy and exhaustion often share the same space. Systems that work for one child may unravel for another. The parent learns to hold contradictions: structure and flexibility, predictability and improvisation, calm and intensity. It’s a balancin...