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How to Start a Mindfulness Practice (Without the Fluff)

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  You don’t need a meditation app. You don’t need incense. You don’t need to sit cross-legged and try to “clear your mind.” That’s not mindfulness. That’s branding. Mindfulness is simply the practice of noticing—your breath, your body, your thoughts, your reactions—without immediately judging or trying to fix them. It’s the art of paying attention to your own life as it’s happening. And yes, it can support longevity. Not because it’s mystical, but because it helps your nervous system stop bracing for impact. It lowers stress hormones. It improves sleep. It makes you less reactive and more resilient. It helps you stay in your body, in your relationships, in your choices—even as things change. So how do you start? You start small. You start real. You notice your breath while brushing your teeth. You feel your feet on the ground while waiting for the microwave. You take three slow breaths before answering a difficult email. You scan your body for tension before bed and soften ...

Publisher's Pride: Books on Bestseller Lists - He's a Porn Addict...Now What? (Overbay & Shea)

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  Today's Publisher's Pride is  He's a Porn Addict...Now What?  by Tony Overbay and Joshua Shea , which reached  #95 in sexual addiction & recovery and #121 in sexual health recovery on Amazon . Book description: Admitting you're a drug addict or alcoholic can be difficult, but when it comes to pornography addiction, the pain of betrayal can hit the addict's partner worse than the addict himself. Difficult questions come rushing: Does he look at this stuff because I'm not enough? Was he like this when I first met him? Is this God trying to test me? What kind of help is available for him? Am I just supposed to stay here and deal with this? With  He's a Porn Addict...Now What?: An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions , you'll get pertinent answers from both sides of the equation: from a therapist and from a former pornography addict. Keywords: porn addiction, recovery and healing, spouse and partner support, betrayal trauma, sexual addictio...

Why So Many People Take Up Sports in Midlife

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We tend to imagine athletes as people who started young—kids who grew up on fields, courts, and tracks. But some of the most passionate athletes I know found their way to sports not in childhood, but in midlife. And when you look closely, it makes perfect sense. Midlife is a hinge point, a moment when identity, time, and meaning shift just enough to open a new door. The question isn’t “Why didn’t they start earlier?” but “Why does now feel like the right moment to begin?” In early life, sports are often tangled up with external pressures: parental expectations, school culture, performance anxiety, the fear of not being good enough. By midlife, those voices quiet. People choose activities for reasons that are internal, grounded, and deeply personal. They’re no longer chasing approval; they’re chasing curiosity, vitality, and self-definition. Life transitions play a role too. Children grow up. Careers stabilize or change shape. Caregiving rhythms become more predictable. Suddenly the...