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Publisher's Pride: Books on Bestseller Lists - He's a Porn Addict...Now What? (Overbay & Shea)

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  Today's Publisher's Pride is  He's a Porn Addict...Now What?  by Tony Overbay and Joshua Shea , which reached  #48 in sexual addiction & recovery on Amazon . Book description: Admitting you're a drug addict or alcoholic can be difficult, but when it comes to pornography addiction, the pain of betrayal can hit the addict's partner worse than the addict himself. Difficult questions come rushing: Does he look at this stuff because I'm not enough? Was he like this when I first met him? Is this God trying to test me? What kind of help is available for him? Am I just supposed to stay here and deal with this? With  He's a Porn Addict...Now What?: An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions , you'll get pertinent answers from both sides of the equation: from a therapist and from a former pornography addict. Keywords: porn addiction, recovery and healing, spouse and partner support, betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, marriage and relationships, ther...

Cancer Diary: The Hiatal Hernia Question — To Repair or Not to Repair

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  Most people hear “hernia” and think of a bulge in the groin. But a hiatal hernia is different: part of the stomach slides up through the diaphragm into the chest, changing the geometry of digestion and breathing. It’s common, often silent, and occasionally blamed for everything from reflux to fatigue. But does it have anything to do with cancer? The Relationship Between Hiatal Hernia and Cancer The short answer: indirect, not direct. A hiatal hernia doesn’t mutate cells or seed tumors. What it does is distort the barrier between stomach and esophagus , making reflux easier and more persistent. That reflux — not the hernia itself — is the real culprit. Mechanism The hernia weakens the lower esophageal sphincter. Acid and bile reach the esophagus more often. Chronic exposure leads to Barrett’s esophagus , a precancerous change. Barrett’s can progress to esophageal adenocarcinoma . So the hernia acts as an architectural accomplice , not a carcinogen. Evidence Large reviews show: No...

Do Opposites Really Attract? Why Rationals and Irrationals Keep Finding Each Other — and How That Can Actually Work

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  Jung divided the psyche into rational and irrational functions — a distinction later refined in Socionics by Filatova and others. Rational types make decisions through judgment; Irrational types perceive through experience. It’s not about logic versus chaos — it’s about how we move through time. When a Rational and an Irrational meet, they often feel both fascination and friction. One lives by structure. the other by flow. Yet together, they can create a rhythm that feels surprisingly whole. Defining the Two Rationals (Judging Types) Rationals live by decisions, plans, and closure. They prefer predictability and control, and they move through life with deliberate rhythm. Plan ahead and finish what they start Prefer clear boundaries and commitments Feel secure when things are decided Often appear steady, organized, and self-disciplined In Socionics, associated with Thinking and Feeling functions Irrationals (Perceiving Types) Irrationals live by perception, spontaneity, ...