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A Glimpse into Intentional Love: Creating the Intimacy of Your Dreams (Girrell et al.)

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  From Intentional Love by Kris Girrell , Abraham Gonzalez , and Bruce Girrell .  Imagine for a moment that you had the relationship of your dreams. It was more than just a sustaining relationship: it was deep, sensuous, and obvious to all your friends and family that this love you enjoy is beyond compare. People would come up to you and comment on how you glow. Others would ask what you are doing and how they can have a relationship like yours. Imagine how you would feel! Imagine how your lover would feel!  Available at:  Amazon paperback Amazon ebook Barnes & Noble MSI Press webstore (25% discount with coupon code FF25) Book Description Intentional Love sets out a counter argument to the long-held narrative that both sex and intimacy decline over the years of a long-term committed relationship. But rather than focusing simply of the sexual skills and educating readers on technique, this book identifies twelve separate Ways of Being that when followed create...

Why OACD? Learners Become Reflective Thinkers

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  Open Architecture Curricular Design (OACD) doesn’t just teach learners what to think — it teaches them how to notice their own thinking. Reflection isn’t an afterthought; it’s built into the architecture itself. Every task, discussion, and interaction becomes an opportunity to pause, observe, and understand the process of learning. Metacognition as structure, not supplement In most curricula, reflection appears at the end — a journal entry, a self‑assessment, a closing activity. In OACD, metacognition is woven through the design. Learners are invited to examine how they learn while they are learning. They ask: What strategies am I using right now? Why does this one work for me? How does my identity shape the way I interpret meaning? This ongoing awareness transforms reflection from a ritual into a habit. Awareness deepens agency When learners understand their own learning processes, they gain control over them. They begin to see patterns — when they focus best, what triggers co...

Publisher's Pride: Books on Bestseller Lists - Pathways to Inner Peace (Dreher)

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  Today's publisher's pride is Pathways to Inner Peace by Diane Dreher , which reached #211 on Amazon's bestseller list for positive psychology. Book Description Pathways to Inner Peace offers a guiding light of hope in a world too often filled with stress, disconnection, and uncertainty. Blending scientific insight, spiritual wisdom, personal stories, and practical exercises, this book helps readers cultivate peace of mind and deepen their connection—to themselves, to others, and to the natural world. Inspiring and accessible, it’s a companion for anyone seeking greater clarity, calm, and meaning in daily life. Keywords inner peace; mindfulness; emotional well-being; stress relief; spiritual growth; personal transformation; self-awareness; holistic healing; mind-body connection' guided exercises; peace of mind; connection to nature; self-discovery; practical spirituality; daily calm; clarity and purpose; mental health; resilience; inspirational stories; meditation an...

Lack of Safe Spaces Inhibits Emotional Expression

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  You can only express emotions where you feel safe. Safety is the soil where feelings grow. Without it, emotions stay underground. For many people, safety has never been part of their emotional landscape. No supportive friend. No nonjudgmental partner. No emotionally attuned parent. When every attempt at vulnerability has been met with criticism, dismissal, or silence, the body learns a painful lesson: It’s not safe to feel. The Silent Adaptation Over time, this absence of safety becomes an internal rule— don’t show, don’t tell, don’t need. People learn to keep everything inside, not because they want to be distant, but because openness once led to harm. They may appear calm, composed, or even cheerful, but underneath is a quiet containment—a lifetime of emotions stored away for lack of a safe place to land. The Cost of Emotional Containment Without safe spaces, emotions don’t vanish; they compress. They turn into tension, fatigue, irritability, or numbness. They leak out throu...

The Servant Leadership Upgrade

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Oncken taught leaders to stop collecting monkeys. Servant leadership teaches leaders to stop creating conditions where monkeys are handed off in the first place. Oncken’s Focus Don’t take the monkey. Teach employees to feed it. Protect your time. Avoid the zoo. Servant Leadership’s Expansion Build people who don’t need to give the monkey away. Teach them to lead it, not just feed it. Expand their capability, not just preserve your bandwidth. Grow a community, not merely prevent chaos. Oncken helps leaders survive. Servant leadership helps organizations flourish. One keeps monkeys off your back. The other builds people who become leaders themselves. If you’d like, I can revise the whole column for rhythm and cohesion now that the table is gone. Yes, please reinsert and provide revised column Here is the fully revised column with the bullet‑list version reinserted and the flow smoothed so the piece reads as one coherent essay. When Your Employees Bring You Monkeys: Why Servant Leadership...