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Religious but Not Spiritual: When Faith Becomes a System Without Breath

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  We often hear about people who are spiritual but not religious — those who seek meaning, transcendence, and moral depth outside institutional frameworks. But there’s another, quieter category that rarely gets named: those who are religious but not spiritual. It sounds paradoxical. How can someone be religious — devoted to worship, ritual, and doctrine — yet lack spirituality, the very soul of faith? And yet, we’ve all met such people, and sometimes we’ve been them. Religion Without Spirit To be religious but not spiritual is to practice the forms of faith without the fire. It’s to attend Mass, recite prayers, follow rubrics, and even defend orthodoxy — but without interior transformation. The motions are correct, but the heart is unmoved. This isn’t hypocrisy; it’s often fatigue. People fall into this state when religion becomes habit rather than encounter, when the sacred is reduced to schedule. The rituals remain, but the relationship fades. It’s what the prophets meant when ...

Publisher's Pride: Books on Bestseller Lists - Andrew's Awesome Adventures with His ADHD Brain (WIlcox)

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  Today's publisher's pride is Andrew's Awesome Adventures with His ADHD Brain by Kristin and Andrew Wilcox, which reached #213 in attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. and #235 in parenting children with disabilities on Amazon. From Amazon: Customers find the book provides brilliant insight into inattentive ADHD, with one customer noting it's a wonderful informative read for children with the condition. The book is easy to read and customers consider it a must-read. They appreciate its pacing, with one customer mentioning it's perfect for both parents and teachers. Book description: In this two-part book Andrew and his neuroscientist mom each tell their story about living with the inattentive subtype of ADHD. How do you survive life and middle school with an ADHD elephant in your brain? Kids with ADHD will relate to Andrew's reactions to everyday and school-related situations, like remembering to turn in homework, staying organized, and making friends. Usi...

Precerpt from Raising God's Rainbow Makers: Shane's Presence of Mind

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When Shane was eight, we transferred him to a private school in Falls Church. It was a good fit academically, but it required something new: taking a city bus. In Falls Church, that was generally considered safe, and for months everything went smoothly. Shane got on the bus in the morning, went to school, and showed up at home in the late afternoon with the same steady reliability he’d always had. Then one day, I got a call from Red Lobster. Red Lobster. In Falls Church. Asking me to come pick up Shane. I remember staring at the phone, thinking, What? Red Lobster sat across a parking lot behind the bus stop bench where Shane always waited. I drove over immediately, heart pounding in that way only a parent’s heart can pound. When I arrived, the manager met me and said, “Your son is very astute.” Apparently school had let out a bit late, and Shane missed his usual bus. He sat on the bench to wait for the next one. While he was waiting, a car pulled up and someone inside called out, invi...