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Publisher's Pride: Books on Bestseller Lists - He's a Porn Addict...Now What? (Overbay & Shea)

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Today's Publisher's Pride is He's a Porn Addict...Now What? by Tony Overbay and Joshua Shea , which reached #63 in sexual health recovery on Amazon . Book description: Admitting you're a drug addict or alcoholic can be difficult, but when it comes to pornography addiction, the pain of betrayal can hit the addict's partner worse than the addict himself. Difficult questions come rushing: Does he look at this stuff because I'm not enough? Was he like this when I first met him? Is this God trying to test me? What kind of help is available for him? Am I just supposed to stay here and deal with this? With He's a Porn Addict...Now What?: An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions , you'll get pertinent answers from both sides of the equation: from a therapist and from a former pornography addict. Keywords: porn addiction, recovery and healing, spouse and partner support, betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, marriage and relationships, therapy and counse...

Christian Students and the Fall Semester: Two Distinct Callings, One Steady Center

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  The start of a fall semester always feels like a threshold moment—new classes, new rhythms, new relationships, and new pressures. For Christian students, it’s also a moment to pause and think intentionally about how faith will shape the months ahead. The questions and challenges differ depending on the campus environment, but the core invitation is the same: to live with clarity, integrity, and purpose. Below is a structured, thoughtful exploration of what Christian students should be considering as they step into the new academic year—first at Christian colleges, then at secular ones. 1. 🌿 If You’re Attending a Christian College A Christian college can be a rich environment for spiritual growth, but it also carries unique responsibilities and potential blind spots. A. Guarding Against Spiritual Complacency When chapel, Bible classes, and Christian language are everywhere, it’s easy to assume spiritual growth will “just happen.” Ask yourself: Am I actively pursuing Christ, or pa...

How to Heal from Grief: Let Yourself Tell the Story More Than Once

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  Repetition is not stagnation. It’s integration. Grief reshapes the landscape of your life. It changes the way you see time, memory, and meaning. In the aftermath of loss, your mind and body are trying to reconcile two realities—the world before and the world after—and that process takes repetition. Each retelling is a kind of gentle rehearsal for acceptance. When you speak the story aloud, write it down, or even think it through again, you’re not circling endlessly; you’re deepening understanding. You’re giving your nervous system permission to process what was too overwhelming the first time. Healing doesn’t happen in a single revelation—it unfolds through revisiting. The story you tell today may sound steadier than the one you told last month. You might notice new details, or find that certain parts no longer sting as sharply. That’s not regression; that’s integration. Let yourself tell it again when the ache resurfaces. Let yourself tell it differently when new insight arrives...

What joyful living looks like

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  Joyful living isn’t a constant smile or a string of perfect days. It’s a way of inhabiting your own life with awareness, gratitude, and a touch of playfulness—even when things are messy. It’s less about chasing happiness and more about cultivating presence. 🌿 Joyful living feels like… Ease in the ordinary. Folding laundry while humming. Watching sunlight move across the floor. Finding satisfaction in small, repeatable rituals. Connection without performance. Talking with someone who listens deeply. Sharing silence comfortably. Letting relationships breathe instead of managing them. Curiosity over control. Asking “what’s possible?” instead of “what’s wrong?” Joy thrives in openness, not perfection. Movement that feels good. Dancing in the kitchen, walking the dog, stretching before bed—joy often hides in motion. Gratitude that’s embodied. Not just listing blessings, but feeling them in your bones: the warmth of tea, the softness of a cat’s fur, the steadiness of your own bre...