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Publisher's Pride: Books on Bestseller Lists - He's a Porn Addict...Now What? (Overbay and Shea)

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  Today's Publisher's Pride is He's a Porn Addict...Now What? by Tony Overbay and Joshua Shea , which reached #60 in sexual health recovery on Amazon . Book description: Admitting you're a drug addict or alcoholic can be difficult, but when it comes to pornography addiction, the pain of betrayal can hit the addict's partner worse than the addict himself. Difficult questions come rushing: Does he look at this stuff because I'm not enough? Was he like this when I first met him? Is this God trying to test me? What kind of help is available for him? Am I just supposed to stay here and deal with this? With He's a Porn Addict...Now What?: An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions , you'll get pertinent answers from both sides of the equation: from a therapist and from a former pornography addict. Keywords: porn addiction, recovery and healing, spouse and partner support, betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, marriage and relationships, therapy and coun...

What is mindfulness?

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  Mindfulness is one of those words that seems simple until you try to define it. It’s often described as “being present,” but that phrase barely scratches the surface. Mindfulness is not just presence—it’s attentive presence , a way of inhabiting the moment with awareness, curiosity, and compassion. 1. The essence of mindfulness At its core, mindfulness means paying attention to what is happening right now—within you and around you—without judgment. It’s noticing the breath as it moves, the body as it feels, the mind as it wanders, and the emotions as they rise and fall. It’s the opposite of autopilot. Instead of reacting automatically, mindfulness invites you to observe first, respond later . This simple shift—from reaction to observation—changes everything. 2. The roots of mindfulness Mindfulness has deep roots in Buddhist practice, where it is known as sati , meaning awareness or remembrance. But its essence transcends religion. Christian contemplative traditions, Jewish mystic...

The Advantages of OACD for Online Learning Programs

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  Online learning has matured far beyond its early promise, yet most programs still carry the same structural flaw that limits traditional classrooms: they assume uniformity. They assume learners arrive with similar backgrounds, similar cognitive profiles, similar motivations, similar pacing needs, and similar ways of demonstrating mastery. In a physical classroom, this assumption is already shaky. In an online environment—where learner variability is even more pronounced—it becomes untenable. Open Architecture Curricular Design (OACD) solves this problem by rejecting uniformity as the organizing principle of curriculum. Instead, it treats learner particularity as the starting point. For online learning programs, this shift is not just beneficial; it is transformative. 1. OACD aligns naturally with the flexibility of online platforms Online learning environments are modular by nature. They already rely on discrete units, asynchronous access, and customizable pathways. OACD takes t...