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Pandemic Support — And What It Still Teaches Us Today: How a Small Town’s Response Became a Blueprint for Everyday Resilience

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When the pandemic hit, many communities struggled with shortages, confusion, and fear. But in San Juan Bautista, something different happened. Farmers dropped off boxes of produce at the schoolyard. Volunteers — just a couple of people, no formal organization, except through coordination with the City Council — helped stack boxes, load boxes, and answer questions. Homemade masks appeared inside the produce boxes, sewn by hands no one ever identified. Colorful, different, fun. People drove up, collected what they needed, and went home. I did not need a box, but my neighbor did. I picked one up for her each week; no questions asked. No lines. No paperwork. No stigma. No panic. The local store never ran out of toilet paper. Or paper products of any kind. People bought what they needed at the moment. They left the rest for those who might need it. The city code enforcer (closest thing to law enforcement in town) passed out big cards to every family. Put a yellow card in the window if...

Publisher's Pride: Books on Bestseller Lists - You're Not Too Old, and It's Not Too late (Berns-Zare)

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Today's publisher's pride is  You're Not Too Old, and It's Not Too Late  by Ilene Berns-Zare, which reached #5 in hot new releases/midlife and #10 in hot new releases/aging and longevity on Amazon. Book Description Designed as an accessible 52-week companion, this inspiring guide invites Baby Boomers and Gen Xers to reimagine aging with confidence, vitality, and purpose. Drawing on research-informed tools and practical reflections, it encourages readers to tap into inner strengths, embrace meaningful shifts, and discover everyday “ah-ha” moments that spark renewal. Whether you seek greater wellbeing, deeper meaning, or renewed fulfillment from midlife through older adulthood, this uplifting resource reminds us that aging well is an active journey—and that the best chapters may still lie ahead. Keywords: midlife transformation; aging with purpose; positive aging book; Baby Boomer wellness; Gen X wellbeing; 52‑week self‑growth guide; midlife reinvention; aging well strate...

The Last Lemon: The Quiet Psychology of Generosity in a Small Town

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  In San Juan Bautista, generosity doesn’t announce itself. It sits quietly on a bench outside the post office, in a box of Meyer lemons or apples or persimmons or potatoes or corn or cabbage or carrots. It lives in the pantry cabinet tucked against the wall across from the post office in the small and shopping "center" in town and on two-shelf book cabinets nailed to posts around town, always stocked with a variety of books and pantry staples. It shows up in the way people take what they need and leave what they can, without fuss or fanfare. And then there’s the last lemon. Anyone who has ever left produce out for neighbors has seen it: a big box disappears quickly, but one lone lemon remains. It can sit there all day, untouched. Not because no one wants it, but because no one wants to take the last one. That tiny hesitation reveals something profound about how a community sees itself. The last lemon becomes a symbol — of courtesy, of restraint, of the assumption that s...

Publisher's Pride: Books on Bestseller Lists -He's a Porn Addict....Nwo What? (Overbay & Shea)

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Today's Publisher's Pride is  He's a Porn Addict...Now What?  by Tony Overbay and Joshua Shea , which reached  #95 in sexual addiction & recovery and #121 in sexual health recovery on Amazon . Book description: Admitting you're a drug addict or alcoholic can be difficult, but when it comes to pornography addiction, the pain of betrayal can hit the addict's partner worse than the addict himself. Difficult questions come rushing: Does he look at this stuff because I'm not enough? Was he like this when I first met him? Is this God trying to test me? What kind of help is available for him? Am I just supposed to stay here and deal with this? With  He's a Porn Addict...Now What?: An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions , you'll get pertinent answers from both sides of the equation: from a therapist and from a former pornography addict. Keywords: porn addiction, recovery and healing, spouse and partner support, betrayal trauma, sexual addiction,...