Daily Excerpt: Recovering from Domestic Violence, Abuse and Stalking (Romer) - Recovering from Domestic Violence, Abuse, and Stalking
Excerpt from Recovering from Domestic Violence, Abuse, and Stalking by Joanna Romer - My Experience: Lauretta Avina “I’m a huge believer in counseling, and I never used to be.” When Lauretta Avina heard that her sister had been murdered by her boyfriend, she couldn’t believe it at first. “I felt disbelief,” she said. “I managed to walk next door to my neighbor’s house. I told him, ‘My sister’s dead!’” Lauretta said her sister, Franca Bars, who was 38 at the time of her death in 2006, had been going with her boyfriend David on and off for seven years. “I only met him once,” Lauretta told me. “He had an angry look. That was two months before the murder.” Despite the angry look, Lauretta said she would never have imagined David capable of murder. “My sister’s exact words were ‘He would never hurt me,’” Lauretta said. “A friend said later he was abusing her. I kick myself in the butt—why didn’t I question her? But my husband had been in Iraq and came home injured; I was