Daily Excerpt: Healing from Incest (Henderson & Emerton) - Funeral

Excerpt from Healing from Incest by Geri Henderson and Seanne Emerton: Funeral Looking at him lying there, at peace for the first time in his life no doubt, I knew that anything we'd shared, good or bad, was over. There was a feeling of complete separation and release that surprised me. I expected to feel something, seeing my father’s body—at least, to sense a familiar dread and fear—but those feelings simply were not there. The lack of feeling, positive or negative, was another new experience. There was nothing more to fear, and I had no regret that our journey together had ended as it had. It was not the end that I had read about or was told is healthy for such relationships. There was no great apology, no dramatic separation, and no therapeutic confrontation. Just an end to what had been a terrible and long journey of struggle and hope. (I have now realized, that there were many things that came to an end that day, but there are others...