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We Are Called to Walk Humbly with God

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  The prophet Micah’s words are simple and seismic: “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.” We quote it often. But what does it mean to walk humbly ? 1. Walking, not sprinting Humility begins with pace. Walking implies steadiness, not hurry. It’s the rhythm of someone who knows they’re not in charge of the universe. To walk humbly is to move through life aware that grace, not control, sustains us. 2. With God, not ahead of God Humility means companionship, not command. We don’t drag God into our plans; we listen for where God is already moving. It’s the difference between saying, “Bless what I’m doing,” and asking, “Show me what You’re doing.” 3. With others, not above them Walking humbly with God always includes walking kindly with people. Pride isolates; humility connects. It lets us see the divine image in others and recognize that every person is a fellow traveler, not a competitor. 4. In awareness, not self‑abasement...

May/Mental Health Month: Healing Compassion (Guest post from Dr. Dennis Ortman)

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“My grace is enough for you, For in weakness power reaches perfection.” --St. Paul   I’m in the business of compassionate healing. As a psychologist, my patients come to me in emotional and mental pain. They feel broken and want to be whole. They want relief from their suffering--their depression, anxiety, tempers, compulsions, and disturbing obsessions. Coming to me, they ask me to witness their suffering and bring them relief. Two questions often haunt them: “Why is this happening to me? How can I fix it?” In their desperation, they look for answers from me, whom they consider “the expert.” Contrary to their expectations, I direct those questions back to themselves and assure them, “You have the answers, but don’t know it yet.” I invite them to pay close attention to their own experience, to listen to the subtle voices speaking within, and to engage in open and honest dialogue with themselves. For many, that is a new experience. These voices have been drowned out by the...

Compassion Is Mercy without Arrogance

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  Compassion is one of those words we toss around as if everyone means the same thing by it. But real compassion—the kind that changes relationships, softens hardened places, and restores dignity—has nothing to do with pity and nothing to do with superiority. Compassion is mercy without arrogance. It is humble. We often imagine compassion as something we give from a position of strength to someone in a position of weakness. But that framing already distorts the truth. The moment compassion becomes a performance of benevolence, it stops being compassion and becomes condescension dressed in soft language. True compassion begins with the recognition that we are not separate from the person in front of us. Their suffering is not an object lesson. Their struggle is not a stage on which we get to act out our virtue. Compassion is not a spotlight; it’s a lowering of oneself to meet another at eye level. Humility is the safeguard. Humility keeps compassion honest. Humility says: I...