Have you ever thought you knew someone well and later discovered a side you had never seen? (Post by Julia Aziz, author of Lessons of Labor)
Have you ever thought you knew someone well and later discovered a side of them you had never seen before? My brother has been transcribing some letters my grandmother wrote when she was engaged to my grandfather but living apart in New York and Chicago. Nineteen-year-old Helen Yarmush teases her beloved with tales of her dates with other men and says things like, "It's been a beautiful day today--a day to run in the wind (which I did) and laugh and sing." The Helen Zimmerberg I got to know three decades later was a mother of four who had already lost her first daughter to ovarian cancer and was undergoing chemo and radiation for lymphoma herself. I've cherished my memories of Helen's sense of humor and ability to make the best out of most anything, and I delight in this free spirit I'm seeing now at her 20th yahrzeit (death anniversary). What a gift it is to discover something new in someone I haven't seen for so long and to be reminded of how multi-f
