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Publisher's pride: Books on bestseller lists - Learning to Feel (Girrell)

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  Recently, Learning to Feel (Girrell), reached #196 on the Amazon bestseller list of psychologist biographies. Book Description:  Learning to Feel, Second Edition, teaches readers how to gain choice and authority over their emotional states. Feelings and emotions are reactions to the deeply held beliefs and experiences of our lives. In order to become fully emotionally intelligent - that is, to be able to know what is yours, what comes from the others, and how best to respond to those others - we must connect first to those core experiences and often re-interpret the meaning they have held for us. Learning to Feel is such a journey, intended to be a set of trail blazes for anyone who wishes to up their game in the realm of emotional intelligence. (Edition 1 was selected for the Independent Press Distinguished Favorite Award and a Literary Titan gold award.) First Edition Book Awards Literary Titan Gold Award Independent Press Award Distinguished Favorite/Psychology For more ...

💫 The Quiet Triangle: Feelings, Emotions, and Beliefs

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  We often use feelings and emotions interchangeably, but they aren’t quite the same. And both are shaped — sometimes quietly, sometimes fiercely — by what we believe. 🧠 Beliefs: The Lens Beliefs are the mental frameworks through which we interpret experience. They tell us what matters, what’s safe, what’s true, and what’s possible. They’re not facts — they’re filters. When a belief is strong, it colors every emotional response that follows. Example: If you believe “I must always be in control,” then uncertainty feels threatening. If you believe “Life unfolds as it should,” uncertainty may feel like curiosity instead. 💓 Emotions: The Body’s Language Emotions are physiological — they rise and fall like tides. They are the body’s immediate response to perception. Fear, joy, anger, sadness, surprise — each is a signal, not a verdict. Emotions tell us something is happening , but not always why . They’re raw data. Beliefs interpret that data. 🌿 Feelings: The Story We Tell About Em...

Publisher's Pride: Books on Bestseller Lists - Learning to Feel (Girrell)

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  Recently, Learning to Feel (Girrell), reached #196 on the Amazon bestseller list of psychologist biographies. Book Description:  Learning to Feel, Second Edition, teaches readers how to gain choice and authority over their emotional states. Feelings and emotions are reactions to the deeply held beliefs and experiences of our lives. In order to become fully emotionally intelligent - that is, to be able to know what is yours, what comes from the others, and how best to respond to those others - we must connect first to those core experiences and often re-interpret the meaning they have held for us. Learning to Feel is such a journey, intended to be a set of trail blazes for anyone who wishes to up their game in the realm of emotional intelligence. (Edition 1 was selected for the Independent Press Distinguished Favorite Award and a Literary Titan gold award.) First Edition Book Awards Literary Titan Gold Award Independent Press Award Distinguished Favorite/Psychology For more ...

Author in the News: Ilene Berns-Zare interviewed on Your True Calling podcast

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  Ilene Berns-Zare, author of  You're Not Too Old, and It's Not Too Late , was recently interviewed by Michelle Chappell on Your True Calling podcast: The Power of Resilience . Book Description Designed as an accessible 52-week companion, this inspiring guide invites Baby Boomers and Gen Xers to reimagine aging with confidence, vitality, and purpose. Drawing on research-informed tools and practical reflections, it encourages readers to tap into inner strengths, embrace meaningful shifts, and discover everyday “ah-ha” moments that spark renewal. Whether you seek greater wellbeing, deeper meaning, or renewed fulfillment from midlife through older adulthood, this uplifting resource reminds us that aging well is an active journey—and that the best chapters may still lie ahead. Keywords: midlife transformation; aging with purpose; positive aging book; Baby Boomer wellness; Gen X wellbeing; 52‑week self‑growth guide; midlife reinvention; aging well strategies; vitality after 50; per...