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Be the Source of Your Own Life: Working in Harmony with the Forces Around You

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  There’s a kind of strength that doesn’t come from pushing harder. It comes from listening deeper. It’s the strength of a tree that bends in the wind but doesn’t break. The strength of a river that flows around obstacles and still reaches the sea. To be the source of your own life is not to dominate the forces around you. It is to work with them. To move in rhythm. To shape your path through attunement, not resistance. 1. Harmony begins with noticing You can’t work with what you ignore. Notice the seasons in your body. Notice the patterns in your relationships. Notice the signals in your environment. Notice the invitations life keeps offering. When you notice, you begin to dance instead of fight. 2. Harmony requires humility You are not the only force at play. There are tides. There are currents. There are ecosystems of energy and timing and grace. Humility doesn’t mean shrinking. It means aligning. 3. Harmony honors both resilience and surrender Resilience...

🌱 Letting Go to Lean In: Becoming a Better Mother Through Surrender

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  There was a time when I believed that the more I controlled them, the safer my children would be. Meals on time, schedules color-coded, emotions accounted for before they even spoke them aloud. It wasn’t about perfection—it was about love expressed through precision. But love has layers, and one of them is trust. Not just in your child, but in yourself, in God, and in the unpredictable beauty of growth. 🌾 The Illusion of Control Control masquerades as strength. It offers structure and certainty, often born from the quiet ache of fear—fear of harm, of mistakes, of being misunderstood. But when control tightens its grip too hard, it can silence spontaneity and dim the spark of genuine connection. Children need boundaries, yes—but they also need room to trip and rise, speak unfiltered, and feel the weight of their own choices. Letting go doesn’t mean abandoning structure. It means reorienting your compass from authority to trust. 💗 The Shift from Command to Communion True mot...

Author in the News: Julia Aziz Discusses "Surrender and Releasing Negative Emotions" on the I Used To Be a Therapist Podcast with Dr. Bruton

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  Dr. Wendy Bruton recently interviewed Julia Aziz, author of Lessons of Labor , on her I Used To Be a Therapist podcast. The topic? " Surrender and Releasing Negative Emotions ." For more posts on Julia and her writings, click HERE .