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Weekly Soul #10: Remember Who You Are

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  Excerpt from  Weekly Soul  by Dr. Frederic Craigie: -10-   The heart of most spiritual practices is simply this: Remember who you are. Remember what you love. Remember what is sacred. Remember what is true. Remember that you will die and that this day is a gift. Remember how you wish to live.   Wayne Muller   In May of 1995, actor Christopher Reeve was taking part in an equestrian competition in Virginia when his horse abruptly stopped before a jump, throwing him forward onto the ground. Unable to break his fall because his hands were entangled with the reins, he landed on his head and suffered a broken neck. The former Superman, Reeve was paralyzed from the neck down for the remaining nine years of his life. In the immediate aftermath of the injury, Reeve considered his profound disability and told his wife, Dana, that “maybe we should let me go.” Her response was, “You’re still you, and I love you.” Outwardly, of course, Reeve was not at all who he had ...

Why Do Many Christians Talk About Karma — When It’s Not a Christian Belief?

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  1. The Question Why do Christians say things like “That’s karma” — when karma isn’t part of Christian theology? Is it just a slip of the tongue? Or is something deeper going on? 2. The Human Angle You hear it all the time: “She got what was coming to her — karma.” “I try to put good energy out there so karma comes back around.” “That’s karma for being selfish.” And yet, these are Christians talking. People who believe in grace, not reincarnation. So what’s happening? 3. The Inquiry Let’s start with definitions. Karma is a concept from Eastern religions — especially Hinduism and Buddhism — that says your actions in this life determine your fate in future lives. It’s part of a cycle of rebirth and moral consequence. Christianity , by contrast, teaches: One life, followed by judgment (Hebrews 9:27) Salvation by grace, not merit (Ephesians 2:8) Forgiveness through Christ, not through working off moral debt Resurrection, not reincarnation So why do Christians use the word ka...

Christian Home, Emotional Abuse, and Atheism

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  Why Might Emotional Abuse in a Christian Home Push a Child Toward Atheism? Emotional abuse—chronic criticism, manipulation, humiliation, or neglect—can deeply distort a child’s sense of self and safety. When this occurs in a home that claims Christian values, the resulting contradictions often undermine spiritual trust and coherence. 1. Contradiction Between Message and Method Christian teachings emphasize love, grace, and compassion. Emotional abuse communicates the opposite: rejection, control, and conditional worth. Children may experience cognitive dissonance : If this is Christian love, it feels cruel. The mismatch between proclaimed values and lived experience can lead to rejecting the entire belief system. This is especially potent when the abuse is framed as “discipline” or “godly correction.” 2. Erosion of Self-Worth Emotional abuse often targets identity: “You’re worthless,” “You’ll never be good enough,” “God is disappointed in you.” These messages can become interna...