Tip #21 from 365 Teacher Secrets for Parents - Finding success every day

 


Today's tip for parents (from two talented teachers) comes from 365 Teacher Secrets for Parents by Cindy McKinley Alder and Patti Trombly (yes, those are the two talented teachers).

#21

Finding Success Every Day!

 

The sweetest of all sounds is praise.

~Xenophon

 

Praise at least one success a day. Even on a bad day, your child exhibits strengths. Look for them. Say them out loud. Remind him of his strengths when he is struggling, and encourage him to press on. Look back at the goals he set and focus on when those (or even parts of those) are reached.

Make sure, however, that it counts. Make a conscious effort, then, not to overpraise. Parents, teachers, coaches, and many adults these days think they will “give” children self-esteem if they praise every little thing they do. “Way to take out your crayons!” “Great job on drawing that line!” “You put that crayon back in the box so well!” Of course, these are exaggerations but sometimes not by much. Kids can’t be given self-esteem. They have to earn it. They know the difference deep down. So, save the praise for when he really deserves it, and he really will feel proud.

Chances are, when you make a conscious effort to praise your child (at least once) every day, you may be rewarded when you hear him doing the same for others!

 


     Cindy McKinley Alder                                            Patti Trombly

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