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Cancer Diary: When the Treadmill Stops - Feeling Bad about Good Things

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  I never imagined that the end of such relentless days could feel like both a surrender and a liberation. For months, my world had been a blur of urgent calls, sleepless nights, and a relentless schedule—caring for adult disabled children living at home and independently but in need of support, running a business, and tending to Carl’s ever-growing needs as he battled cancer of unknown primary (CUP). Each day was a race against time: rushing to change his diapers, lifting him from his chair to the bed in the hoyer, and dashing to the pharmacy at a minute’s notice when a new symptom flared up. The demands were ceaseless, and the emotional toll was immeasurable. When Carl finally passed, I expected to grieve. Instead, I found myself caught in an unexpected and painful paradox: relief. There was an undeniable sense of release, a pause to the endless treadmill of caregiving that had consumed every waking moment of my life and more often than not, half of my night, with sleep deprivati...

Cancer Diary: Navigating a New Cancer Diagnosis: Essential First Steps

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Receiving a cancer diagnosis is life-altering. It’s natural to feel overwhelmed, scared, and uncertain about the road ahead. While every journey is unique, there are several immediate steps you can take to prepare for the challenges and decisions that lie ahead. Here are some key actions to consider: 1. Understand Your Diagnosis Knowledge is power. Make sure you fully understand your diagnosis, including the type of cancer, stage, and potential treatment options. Ask your doctor questions such as: What type of cancer do I have? What stage is it, and what does that mean for my treatment? What treatment options are available to me? What are the potential side effects and risks? What is the expected timeline for treatment? Consider bringing a trusted friend or family member to appointments to help take notes and ask additional questions. 2. Find the Right Medical Team Choosing the right oncologist and medical team is crucial. Seek second opinions if necessary and look for a hospital or tr...

Cancer Diary: Vitamins and Cancer

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  Vitamin supplements are the easy-to-obtain, off-the-shelf, magic pills that keep us healthy, right? Well, actually, some vitamins and supplements have been associated with an increased risk of certain types of cancer when taken in high doses. Here are a few examples: Vitamin A (Retinoids) : High doses of vitamin A supplements have been linked to an increased risk of lung cancer. Beta-Carotene : High doses of beta-carotene supplements have been associated with an increased risk of lung cancer, especially in smokers. Vitamin E : Some studies suggest that high doses of vitamin E supplements may increase the risk of prostate cancer. Folic Acid : Excessive intake of folic acid supplements may increase the risk of colon cancer. Selenium : High doses of selenium supplements have been linked to an increased risk of skin cancer. It's important to note that these associations are based on studies involving high doses of supplements, not the vitamins obtained from a balanced diet. Always co...

Cancer Diary: Stage 1 Cancer

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  You always hear about Stage 4 cancer...the scary stuff. Sometimes Stage 3. Rarely the other stages of cancer . Stage 4 is when we learned about Carl 's Cancer of Unknown Primary ; we hoped...while there really was no hope. What about Stage 1, though? Our neighbor just learned of a Stage 1 diagnosis, and her first response is to run away, ignore it, and, alternatively, to panic and tremble. So, I asked AI how should she respond? Here is what I got in response: While it's definitely concerning, stage 1 cancer is considered early-stage and highly treatable . The prognosis is generally very good, and many people go on to live healthy lives after treatment. Treatment options for stage 1 cancer typically include: Surgery : This is often the first line of treatment to remove the tumor. Depending on the type of cancer, a lumpectomy (removal of the tumor) or a more extensive surgery might be recommended. Radiation Therapy : This may be used after surgery to eliminate any remaining ca...