Precerpt from My 20th Language: Child vs Adult Language Acquisition, Part 2 (Leaver)

Adult Language Learning vs Child Language Learning (Part Twp) Grammatical Competence Grammatical competence—the ability to produce structurally accurate language—is often assumed to be innate in native speakers. But in reality, it develops slowly and unevenly. In one’s first language, full control over grammar doesn’t typically emerge until around age ten. Before that, children rely on patterns and approximations. They say things like “I goed” or “She don’t like it,” not because they lack intelligence, but because they’re still internalizing the rules. True grammatical accuracy is learned—often through formal education, correction, and exposure to written language. This has profound implications for adult second-language learners. Adults are expected to produce grammatically correct sentences from the outset, yet they lack the immersive, multi-year K–12 schooling that shaped their native grammaticality. They must learn grammar the hard way: through textbooks, drills, feedback, and cons...