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  Why Might Sexual Abuse in a Christian Home Push a Child Toward Atheism? Sexual abuse by a caregiver in a religious context introduces profound contradictions between proclaimed values and lived experience. The resulting trauma can fracture a child’s ability to trust, make meaning, and feel spiritually safe. 1. Violation of Sacred Trust Sexual abuse is a betrayal of the deepest kind. When the abuser is a parent who claims Christian values, the child may feel that everything sacred has been corrupted . The caregiver is supposed to reflect divine love and protection. When that figure becomes a source of harm, the child may reject the entire spiritual framework associated with them. This is especially potent when the abuse is hidden behind religious language or moral authority. 2. Shame and Silence in Religious Culture Many Christian communities emphasize purity, obedience, and forgiveness. These values can unintentionally: silence victims discourage disclosure spiritua...

  Today's author in the news is Susan Lewis, author of  From Deep Within , who contributed a column recently to Psychology Today :  Treatment for Sexual Abusers and Sexual Abuse Victims. For more posts by and about Susan and her book, click HERE . For more posts on sexual abuse, click HERE . To purchase copies of this book at 25% discount, use code FF25 at  MSI Press webstore . Sign up for the MSI Press LLC monthly newsletter (recent releases, sales/discounts, awards, reviews, Amazon top 100 list, author advice, and more -- stay up to date)   Follow MSI Press on  Twitter ,  Face Book , and  Instagram .   Interested in publishing with MSI Press LLC?  We help writers become award-winning published authors. One writer at a time. We are a family, not a factory. Do you have a future with us? Turned away by other publishers because you are a first-time author and/or do not have a strong platform yet? If you have a strong manuscript, San Juan B...

  Excerpt from Recovering from Domestic Violence, Abuse, and Stalking by Joanna Romer -  My Experience: Lauretta Avina              “I’m a huge believer in counseling, and I never used to be.”   When Lauretta Avina heard that her sister had been murdered by her boyfriend, she couldn’t believe it at first. “I felt disbelief,” she said. “I managed to walk next door to my neighbor’s house. I told him, ‘My sister’s dead!’” Lauretta said her sister, Franca Bars, who was 38 at the time of her death in 2006, had been going with her boyfriend David on and off for seven years. “I only met him once,” Lauretta told me. “He had an angry look. That was two months before the murder.” Despite the angry look, Lauretta said she would never have imagined David capable of murder. “My sister’s exact words were ‘He would never hurt me,’” Lauretta said. “A friend said later he was abusing her. I kick myself in the butt—why didn’t I q...

  Excerpt from Healing from Incest : Lies and Secrets When I think about the lies my father told and all the unsaid thoughts and fears that were part of the air we breathed at our house, I remember a particularly frightening time when the truth was almost brought into the open many, many years before that session in Seanne’s office.   Mother and Father had come for my college graduation—a ceremony I had attempted to forego, perhaps to avoid having them come. But that same weekend my cousin had planned his wedding to coincide with the gathering of the families and friends for our combined graduations. I was involved in the wedding preparations, and Mother decided to ride along with me to a nearby city for the rehearsal. The truth was, she had an agenda that I couldn't have imagined. If I’d had any idea of her intention, I'd have been even more frightened and much more uncomfortable.   I sometimes had nightmares about Mother dying and me being forced to marry my...