Tip #54 from 365 Teacher Secrets for Parents (McKinley & Trombly): Making the Grade
  Today's tip for parents from two talented teachers comes from  365 Teacher Secrets for Parents  by Cindy McKinley Alder and Patti Trombly. #54 Making the Grade   Have your child take responsibility for his grades.  Don’t let him say, “The teacher gave  me this grade.”  Instead, have him say, “I earned  this grade.”   Has your child ever come home very upset because of a poor grade on a project or assignment? He might not understand why the grade was so poor and may even think the teacher was unfair in his grading. Before you react, take a few minutes to sit down with your child and go over the assignment or project together. Can you see where he made his mistakes? Can he explain to you the goal of the assignment or project and then decide whether or not he achieved the goal? Together, you should be able to determine where he went wrong. If neither of you can find the errors that brought down his grade, make a list of questions for your child to ask his teacher...