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The Relationship Between Anger and Suicide

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We often think of suicide as the final act of despair — a collapse into hopelessness, a quiet surrender. But sometimes, it’s not quiet at all. Sometimes, it’s fueled by rage. Anger and suicide may seem like emotional opposites. One explodes outward; the other implodes. But research shows they’re more connected than we think. Anger — especially when chronic, internalized, or unexpressed — can be a powerful risk factor for suicidal thoughts and behaviors. How Anger Contributes to Suicide Risk Angry temperament : A persistent tendency to feel and express anger, even without clear provocation, is linked to suicidal ideation — independent of depression. Internalized anger : When anger is turned inward, it can become self-loathing, guilt, or shame — emotional states that erode self-worth. Erosion of social support : Chronic anger can push people away, leaving the person feeling isolated and burdensome — key ingredients in the interpersonal theory of suicide. Impulsivity and emotion dy...

Can 12‑Step Programs Help with Anger Management?

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  Yes, they can, in some ways.  🌱 What 12‑step programs are good at They offer several mechanisms that indirectly but meaningfully support anger regulation: 1. A structure for pausing and reflecting Steps like taking inventory (Step 4), admitting harm (Step 5), and making amends (Steps 8–9) encourage people to slow down, examine patterns, and take responsibility. That reflective rhythm alone can soften reactive anger. 2. A community that normalizes emotional struggle Anger often thrives in isolation. Hearing others talk about resentment, frustration, and shame reduces the sense of being uniquely volatile. That reduces pressure and makes anger feel more workable. 3. A language for resentment 12‑step culture treats resentment as a central emotional hazard. People learn to name it, track it, and understand its consequences. That vocabulary helps people catch anger earlier in its arc. 4. A spiritual or values‑based frame Whether someone interprets “Higher Power” lit...

Daily Excerpt: Anger Anonymous (Ortman): Anger As a Drug

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  Excerpt from Anger Anonymous ANGER AS A DRUG Many label anger a negative emotion because it can be as toxic as any drug. Indulged without restraint, it causes untold wreckage to lives and relationships. When swallowed out of fear, it becomes a poison. It seeps into the body, making you depressed, nervous, and physically sick, and leaks out in passive-aggressive behavior. I prefer to call anger a difficult emotion because of the intensity of the energy it produces. The problem with anger is not in the feeling itself, which is natural, but in how it is expressed. It can be expressed beneficially in appropriately assertive behavior and in protesting injustice. Problems occur, however, when that energy is either under-controlled or over-controlled. Unchecked, it can result in aggressive, harmful behavior that destroys people and relationships. If internalized, it can wreak havoc with your body and emotions. Anger is a natural energy that helps you to survive when handled with care, c...

Daily Excerpt: Anger Anonymous (Ortman) - Introduction

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    excerpt from  Anger Anonymous  -  INTRODUCTION ANGER ANONYMOUS: THE BIG BOOK ON ANGER ADDICTION “Anyone can become angry—that is easy, but to be angry with the right person, and to the right degree, and at the right time, and for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.” —Aristotle   Anger arises within us with a warning label: “Handle with extreme caution!” It is a fire that can give light and warmth to sustain life when well managed, or it can burn and incinerate when out of control. Anger possesses a power that fascinates and disturbs. Even though we witness its devastating effects in broken relationships, violence, and war, we relish the momentary sense of power we feel when enraged. “Anger is one letter short of danger,” the saying goes. Society respects anger’s dangerous potential. It makes laws against violent behavior. Parents teach their children to manage their temper. Religion cautions agai...