From Lollipops to Leadership: A Woman’s Story from the Vietnam-Era Army (a story for National Military Appreciation Month)

May is National Military Appreciation Month—a time to thank those who serve and have served. For many Americans, it's a reminder of sacrifice, duty, and national pride. For those of us who wore the uniform , it runs much deeper. It’s a time to remember the moments that shaped us—not only the mission, but the camaraderie, the challenges, and the enduring bonds of brotherhood and sisterhood. I served in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War era, when women in uniform were few and far between—especially officers. I enlisted but was quickly selected to appear before a Board to be considered for a direct commission. That Board was almost entirely male—mostly captains, a rank I came to see as a tough one: just enough time in to develop a sense of authority but still navigating their own path up or out. There was one woman on the Board. I stood before them visibly pregnant , and that was no small thing. I may well have been the first woman to stay in the military while pregnant, since ...