Tip #27 from 365 Teacher Secrets for Parents (Alder & Trombly) - Memory
Today's tip for parents from two talented teachers comes from 365 Teacher Secrets for Parents by Cindy McKinley Alder and Patti Trombly.
#27
I
Just Forgot!
If
the person you are talking to doesn't appear to be listening, be patient.
It may simply be that he has a small piece of fluff in his ear.
~Winnie
the Pooh
Do you find that when you
ask your child to do more than one thing at a time, the task may only get
partially done or not done at all? Perhaps it is less an attitude problem than
you might be tempted to think. Children need practice building their memory and
multi-tasking skills.
One way to improve your
child's memory is by asking him to do a series of tasks. Use the words
"first," "then," "next," and "finally"
or number them 1, 2, 3, 4. Give him directions such as "First, go get your
book bag. Second, put on your shoes and, third, wait by the door for me.” It
may be helpful to have a younger child repeat the directions first, before attempting
to follow them. Ask him to visualize where these things are as you say them so
he has a “picture” of where to go, too.
Another helpful aid is to
find a song your child knows and likes. Borrow its tune and replace the words
with the things he has to remember. For instance, use the melody from “Head,
Shoulders, Knees and Toes” to remember to bring home all of his winter clothes
from school: “Hat, snow pants, boots, and gloves.” He can practice singing it
every time he packs up to come home.
Find other ways in
everyday life to help him increase his memorization capability. Give him 3, 4,
or 5 things to remember when you take him shopping. Ask him, “What were the
three things I asked you to remember for me?” With practice, his ability to
remember things will increase.
Helping him at home
should also increase his ability to remember multiple directions a teacher may
give him at school. As the directions get harder and he accomplishes them, he
will feel a sense of pride as well as improve his memory.
See
the workbook at www.365teachersecrets.com for a sample of a memory game.
Cindy McKinley Alder Patti Trombly
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