Weekly Soul - Week 31 - Not Knowing


Today's meditation from Weekly Soul: Fifty-two Meditations on Meaningful, Joyful, and Peaceful Living by Dr. Frederic Craigie.

-31-

 

It may be that when we no longer know what to do, we have come to our real work and when we no longer know which way to go, we have begun our real journey. The mind that is not baffled is not employed. The impeded stream is the one that sings.

 

Wendell Berry

 

Bill Wilson looked at his life and recognized that it wasn’t working. He was deeply depressed and in the grip of severe addiction to alcohol. He recounts that he “gagged badly” on the idea of a Power Greater than himself, but cried out that if there were a God, that God would come to him and that he would do anything God might ask in order to change his life. Suddenly, he experienced a “great white light;” he felt a spirit of ecstasy and transformation and realized that he was a free man. Known widely as “Bill W,” he became one of the two co-founders of Alcoholics Anonymous, which now offers over 100,000 groups with over two million active members worldwide.

Acceptance is more than developing the ability to tolerate distress. Acceptance can prompt transformation.

For some people, transformation arises out of despair: substance abuse, failed relationships, and life-compromising illness.

For other people, transformation arises—suddenly or gradually—with the recognition that life isn’t terrible but also doesn’t bring much satisfaction or joy. I have lost count of the people I’ve worked with who have left jobs in which they were materially comfortable but spiritually dead, like the young man who left a modestly lucrative position with a beverage distributor when he realized that he didn’t want to spend his life “selling people sugar water that they don’t need.”

Rarely, I find, do people who are on a journey of transformation away from suffering have a clearly-mapped future. You may have a clear image of Plan A in the rear-view mirror but not of Plan B on the road ahead.

It is at this point of recognizing that you don’t know what to do or where to do it that “the real work” begins. What is “the real work?”

 

  • Being willing to leave the familiarity of the old life behind. Familiarity brings comfort and security, even in the setting of suffering.
  • Soul searching; earnestly exploring the question of who you are and what you genuinely want in your life. What do you care about? What brings you joy? When have you felt really alive? What do you know, and what do you do well? Questions like these.
  • Being willing to embrace the uncertainty and ambiguity of a new way of being. Being curious and attentive about doors that close and doors that open. Bill Wilson had no idea on December 11, 1934 (the date of what is known as his “white light” experience) what a life of sobriety might bring. The beverage distributor had no idea where his new life would take him and certainly would not have imagined that he would find himself happily directing a program of Big Brothers/Big Sisters. At the point of not knowing where to go, demanding to have a clear and certain new path only stifles the creative new journey.

 

Not knowing what to do or where to go is not a failure. It need not be the dead end that it may well seem to be. It’s an open palette, and the colors are all out there, waiting for the real work to form them together.

 

Reflection

 

  • Recall a time when you were at a point of not knowing what to do or where to go. Perhaps in a job. Perhaps in a relationship. Perhaps, like Bill W, in relation to how you had been living your own life. As you think about what “acceptance” may have meant in that circumstance, what was “the real work”—the soul-searching about what really mattered to you and sitting with the uncertainty about what the future might hold? How did you navigate the journey of closed and open doors going forward?
  • Consider whether there is someone you know who has faced what seemed like a dead-end circumstance and handled it with grace, perhaps, even, finding some healing or spiritual growth along the way. What can you learn from that person’s journey?
  • In the week to come, pause in some circumstance when you feel “at a loss” about how to proceed. Think about what really matters to you and how you might move forward in ways that align with your values about who you are. Practice letting go of expectations of certainty as you chart the path that you need to follow.

 

Author

 

Wendell Berry (b. 1934) is an American writer, poet, and essayist. He is a man of many talents and passions. He is internationally prominent in the world of letters, his books of poetry, fiction, and essays having garnered wide recognition and numerous awards. He is a devoted small-scale organic farmer, returning to his birth state of Kentucky in the mid-sixties to buy a farm in the region where his parents’ families had themselves farmed for over five generations. And he is an activist and advocate for many causes, demonstrating on behalf of concerns about the Vietnam War, nuclear power, the death penalty, coal-fired power generation, and national security strategy in the wake of the World Trade Center attacks. Continuing themes in his writing have been the importance of sustainable human connections with the earth and the importance of community.

The quotation, among the most prominent snippets of Berry’s voluminous work, comes from his essay, “Poetry and Marriage,” in Standing by Words (Counterpoint, © 1983, reprinted by permission).

 

Book Description:

Weekly Soul is a collection of 52 meditations on meaningful, joyful and peaceful living. It has been recognized with national awards. The meditations begin with thought-provoking quotations from a range of people--writers, journalists, theologians, musicians and artists, activists--and touch on themes of Miracles, Aliveness, Purpose, Laughter and Joy, Presence/Mindfulness, Activism, Acceptance, Gratitude, Forgiveness, Creativity, Civility, and Hope. Each meditation also offers Dr. Craigie's stories and commentary, questions for individual and group reflection, suggestions for daily follow-up, and biographical background on the quotation authors. In Weekly Soul, readers will find a year's worth of affirmation and engaging exploration of wholeness and well-being.

Keywords:
meditation; reflection; inspiration; miracles; aliveness; purpose; laughter; joy; presence; mindfulness; activism; acceptance; gratitude; forgiveness; creativity; civility; hope; affirmation; wholeness; well-being; mental health; personal growth; transformation; inner peace; personal reflection; joy; joyful living; inspirational quotes; inspirational commentary

Book awards for Weekly Soul
Book of the Year Award (gold)
American Book Fest Book Award Finalist, Spiritual: Inspiration
Reader Views Literary Awards, Silver Medal, Mind, Body, Soul
Reader Views Literary Award, Silver Medal, Religion
Kops-Fetherling International Book Awards Honorable Mention, Inspiration & Motivation
Pinnacle Book Achievement Award, Inspirational
National Indie Excellence Award, Well-Being


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