Excerpt from Noah's New Puppy: Guidance to Parents (Rice with Henderson)
Parent’s Guide
This
story encourages conversations between parents and their young children about
PTSD, post-deployment issues, or parents suffering from depression.
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It is
understandable that some of you might be feeling anxious about talking to your
child about such difficult topics - this is normal. What is important to
remember is that you are not there to talk to your child about trauma. Instead,
it is best to focus on some of the emotions that they have seen you experience,
like fear, panic, sadness. These are all emotions children can understand as
they have experienced these emotions themselves at some point in their lives.
They can relate to how you feel by asking them to remember a time when they had
a nightmare or got lost in a store.
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When you are
talking to your child, it is essential to be an active listener. You should be
listening more than speaking. Some children may find it hard to express
themselves, so it is vital that you, during the conversation, repeat back in
your own words what your child has said and ask if you understood correctly.
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Children
often feel like your difficulties are their fault.
It is normal for
children to feel like your difficulties are their fault. It is important to
express to your child that this is not the case, that you love them very much
and that there is a plan in place to make things better. Let them know that
they can talk to you at any time.
It never hurts to end the conversation with a
HUG.
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