Making the Most of the New Year in Older Years: Excerpt from Award-Winning Book, Women, We're Only Old Once (Cooper)
The following is an excerpt from the award-winning book, Women. We're Only Old Once (Bertha Cooper) that seems particularly appropriate as the new year begins:
I have
been frankly humbled by this experience of entering the last phase of my life.
I, so far, have humble thoughts, the most important include being honest about
my grief and, in the end, letting go of it. I try to honor the important losses
of friends, accept the devaluation of my work, shrug off the newest arthritic
finger bump, and pay attention to new thoughts and aspirations that never before
had room in my life.
Quite
important, as you will see in later chapters, I encourage investment in
well-being. Among my hopes in sharing this journey with you is that we will honor
our bodies, which are changing daily, by taking care of them and will cherish our
remaining relationships. We can anticipate that new thoughts and aspirations
will begin entering from unexpected places as we clear out denial and grieving.
Welcoming new thoughts along with letting go of old ones are important tasks of
aging. It’s right next to trying, and occasionally succeeding, in living out each
moment of today.
The Awakening
We
begin our journey by recalling and piecing together our own story. We already
know how to transition from one stage of life to another, to evolve, to cope
with losses—and we each learn to navigate the aging terrain in our own way. We
succeed the most when we recognize that we are in a whirlwind of bold
impermanence and breathe with it instead of holding our breaths. Aging is a
lifelong journey, one that will end someday. In the meantime, we keep on
learning and living each instance of our life differently from all the other
instances. This is an age of discovery like none other when we realize that in
letting go, we make room for so much more.
“It’s a mystery. I am getting smarter! My
mind is on fire to learn,” said one of the women I interviewed.
Our
own life teaches us that we know how to let go without fear. We have been
moving forward, then a little backward, and then forward again for years.
Knowing the Path to Who We Are Becoming
The
path to successful aging begins with embracing our own life story.
Women, We're Only Old Once has won the following awards:
Phoenix Award for Best New Voice in Health and Fitness 2021
Best Indie Books Award 2021
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