Daily Excerpt: Widow: How to Survive (and Thrive!) in Your 2nd, 3rd, and 4th Years (Romer) - Exercise
Today's book excerpt comes from Joanna Romer's Widow: How to Survive (and Thrive!) in Your 2nd, 3rd, and 4th Years
CHAPTER SIX
Exercise
Dare I bring up the obvious? There are few things as crucial
to your state of mind as exercise. While it may have been easy to go the gym,
run around the block, or swim at the neighborhood pool during your first year
of widowhood, by Year Two it’s become a little harder. Why is that? Quite
simply, when you’re in a state of extreme stress or depression, such as early
widowhood, exercise acts as a tonic, giving an immediate boost. As your sense
of wellbeing returns, the benefits of exercise aren’t so obvious.
They are still there, however, and exercise is still vitally
important. Even though we begin to feel a new sense of calm and acceptance
waking up in the morning, that doesn’t mean we should loll around the house all
day in our pajamas. Yes, certainly, once a week it’s great to take a day off, but
during the week try to incorporate a little bit of exercise into your daily
routine.
This does not have to be extensive or even particularly
exhausting. A 15-minute walk after dinner or early in the morning will enliven
your senses and put you in touch with the world. Twenty minutes of “Body
Electric,” available on YouTube, will stretch your muscles, get your thoughts
off your problems and let you focus on how good your body feels. Try dancing
around the house to some favorite music, feeling the beat and the motion of
your hips. A weekly bowling date with the girls, a tennis lesson where you
really try to improve, or a game of golf (even miniature golf) will keep your
body flexible and your mind open.
That’s the real benefit of exercise: the effect on your
mind. As a second-year widow, we need anything we can do to connect us with the
outside world. We’ve spent a lot of time thinking, and while some of it—most of it—was necessary for our healing, it is
now time to take a step out of our heads and into our bodies. It’s time to move.
GUIDELINES FOR CONTINUING TO EXERCISE
1. If you developed an exercise routine
during your first year of widowhood, continue it in Year Two, Three and Four.
2. If you didn’t exercise in Year One, now
is the time to start.
3. Begin with something simple—a 15-minute walk around the block, or
20 minutes of “Body Electric” (found on
Youtube).
4. Take advantage of spare moments to
dance around your house to music, moving your hips and torso.
5. As you feel more comfortable
exercising, take a tennis lesson, swim laps in the local pool, or try some
bowling.
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