A Publisher's Conversation with Authors: 📞 When Not to Call: Respecting Boundaries in the Submission Process
This week, I’d like to speak candidly about something that happened recently—and offer a bit of guidance for authors seeking publication. I received a call on my personal cell phone from a writer I didn’t know. He had found my number online and decided to reach out directly to pitch his book. Unfortunately, he caught me at a difficult moment: I was at a doctor’s office, fielding urgent calls about my daughter’s care. I answered because I was expecting medical updates. Instead, I found myself on the receiving end of a cold pitch—and when I asked the caller to send an email instead, he seemed annoyed. Let me be clear: I understand the passion and urgency that drive authors to seek a publisher. I admire that drive. But cold calling a publisher’s personal number—especially without invitation or context—is not the way to begin a professional relationship. Publishing is a collaborative process built on mutual respect, timing, and trust. That begins with honoring boundaries. So, wha...