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Publisher's Pride: Books on Bestseller LIsts - He's a Porn Addict...Now What? (Overbay & Shea)

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Today's Publisher's Pride is  He's a Porn Addict...Now What?  by Tony Overbay and Joshua Shea , which reached  #48 in sexual addiction & recovery on Amazon . Book description: Admitting you're a drug addict or alcoholic can be difficult, but when it comes to pornography addiction, the pain of betrayal can hit the addict's partner worse than the addict himself. Difficult 48uestions come rushing: Does he look at this stuff because I'm not enough? Was he like this when I first met him? Is this God trying to test me? What kind of help is available for him? Am I just supposed to stay here and deal with this? With  He's a Porn Addict...Now What?: An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions , you'll get pertinent answers from both sides of the equation: from a therapist and from a former pornography addict. Keywords: porn addiction, recovery and healing, spouse and partner support, betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, marriage and relationships, thera...

Author in the News: Joshua Shea Appears on Positive Talk Radio -- Twice

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  Earlier this year, MSI Press author, Joshua Shea ( He's a Porn Addict...Now What?  and  Porn and the Pandemic ), had some very interesting things to say on Positive Talk Radio. Have a listen: Joshua Shea- Expert on Porn Addiction | Positive Talk Radio with Kevin McDonald Joshua Shea- PORN Addiction Expert | Positive Talk Radio with Kevin McDonald Read posts about Joshua and his books  HERE . Link fo review of He's a Porn Addict...Now What? and more book information  HERE .                                  Sign up for the MSI Press LLC newsletter                           Follow MSI Press on  Twitter ,  Face Book , and  Instagram .

Daily Excerpt: He's a Porn Addict...Now What (Overbay and Shea): The Spiritual Questions - Should I Make Him Tell Our Pastor?

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  from   He's a Porn Addict...Now What? Should I make him tell our pastor? Tony, the mental health professional: Remembering that ultimately you can’t “make” him do anything, I feel that it is reasonable to ask him to confess to your pastor, especially if he has truly been living a “double life” with regard to the addiction. Many addicts attend church regularly, which can confuse a spouse. “How can he worship God, or teach a Sunday School class, or hold any type of church responsibility and be acting out?” These are hard questions to process for the betrayed, but to the betrayer, this has been part of the shame cycle that often keeps an addict turning back to the addiction. Many addicts tell me that when they are in church, they are trying to be “all in.” They often say that they truly do compartmentalize areas of their lives, and when it comes to church, they often desperately cling to the hope that while they are in their “spiritual compartment” they will feel some hope. Oft...