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How Does One Keep On Keeping On After a Disabling Event?

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  Not through heroics. Not through the glossy “resilience” language that gets tossed around so easily. You keep going by learning to live inside a smaller circle of energy and possibility, and then slowly discovering that life still exists there. A disabling event redraws the map. The old routes disappear. The old assumptions about what your body can do, what your days will look like, what you can promise other people — all of it shifts. And the first truth is that you don’t “bounce back.” You build forward , with different materials. You keep on by letting yourself grieve the version of life that ended. By accepting help even when it feels like defeat. By finding micro‑victories — the small tasks that remind you you’re still capable. By relearning your body without shame. By letting relationships recalibrate around what is real now, not what used to be. By allowing rest to be part of the work, not a failure of it. Keeping on is not a single act. It’s a daily negotiation between wh...

The Perils of Distracted Driving

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  Every driver believes they can multitask — until the moment they can’t. A text, a notification, a song change, a glance at the GPS — each feels harmless, a second stolen from attention. But driving is a continuous act of judgment, and judgment collapses when attention fractures. The human brain doesn’t truly multitask; it toggles. And in that split second of toggling, lives can change forever. The Illusion of Control Technology gives us the illusion that we can manage everything at once. We answer messages while steering, scroll while idling, check maps while merging. The car becomes an extension of the phone — a moving workspace, a mobile living room. But physics doesn’t care about convenience. At 60 miles per hour, a glance away for three seconds means traveling the length of a football field blind. The Emotional Cost Distracted driving isn’t just a safety issue; it’s a moral one. Every beep and buzz tempts us to treat attention as disposable. Yet attention is the essence of ca...

Author in the News: Betty Shaw and a Viral Video (12 Million Views)

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    It all started with distracted driving and a horrendous accident, then triumph from tragedy and a touching video, interviews by news media, two appearances on Oprah Winfrey's show, and, finally, a book,  One Simple Text . . . , )  As part of our "looking back" series, we share the original video that continues to grow in views and now stands at 12 million. Book description: It was every parent's worst nightmare. On a sun-drenched morning in April 2012, a Maryland state trooper knocked on Betty Shaw's front door and delivered the grim news that her 17-year-old daughter, Liz, had been involved in a horrible car accident and was clinging to life. Liz recovered from her life-threatening injuries but suffered severe and permanent effects from the accident. Texting while driving caused Liz's crash, and she and her mother went on a mission to educate people about the perils of distracted driving. The pair began to speak before various groups, and as their populari...