Posts

Showing posts with the label empathetic listening

All Kinds of Listening (and How to Spot Them in the Wild)

Image
  We’ve all heard of active listening — the workplace darling of communication workshops. But the truth is, actionable listening deserves the crown. It’s rarely taught, but it’s the kind that actually changes things. 🟢 Actionable Listening The real gold standard. You don’t just hear — you co‑create. The listener and speaker decide together what change will happen, and both monitor it over time. It builds morale, trust, and a climate of shared accountability. It’s listening with sleeves rolled up. 🟣 Active Listening The taught gold standard. You nod, paraphrase, and empathize — but the conversation often ends with a warm fuzzy and no follow‑through. If change happens, it’s usually decided by the listener alone. ⚪ Pro Forma Listening You’re technically present but mentally elsewhere. You nod at the right times, but your brain is on lunch break. 🟠 Defensive Listening You’re listening to reload. Every sentence is ammunition for your next rebuttal. 🔵 Selective Listening You hear...