Tip #44 from 365 Teacher Secrets for Parents (McKinley & Trombly) - What to do if your child is having trouble
Today's tip for parents from two talented teachers comes from 365 Teacher Secrets for Parents by Cindy McKinley Alder and Patti Trombly.
#44
If
Your Child is Having Trouble
If
the student fails to learn, the teacher fails to teach.
~Anonymous.
Even with the best intentions, you
may find that your child is having trouble at school. You may be feeling
frustrated, unsure of what to do. Be sure of one thing: His teacher is there to
help you.
If you feel confident in
helping your child with his problem, try that first. This book offers many
ideas and activities that can be helpful and lead you to more activities that
you create on your own. There are also many other helpful books out there that
deal with specific problems. You might find some answers on the Internet. You
might talk to other parents to see if they have ever dealt with similar
problems. You can also talk to your child’s teacher.
Your child’s teacher will
likely be the most helpful source you can turn to for support. He knows your
child well and can probably give you specific things to work on at home. You
might ask for specific curriculum goals and outcomes for your child’s grade
level so that you can judge for yourself how he is doing according to grade
level standards. He will also know if your child should be referred to a
specialist for testing. (If the assessment supports your concerns, he will
receive special help at school.)
When a child isn’t doing
well in a particular subject (let’s use reading as an example), he may begin to
dislike it as well. As the frustration with not feeling like an adequate reader
builds, he tends not to want to participate in reading activities at all. Of
course, less participation will only exacerbate the problem. If this cycle
continues without intervention from the adults in his life, the child may never
become the reader he is capable of
being. His teacher can probably offer you many ideas for ways you can make
reading more fun and meaningful for your child at home. He is there to help.
Whatever the problem, it
pays to search for solutions as soon as possible. Especially with reading, much
of school success depends on skills learned early on. Falling behind in the
elementary grades can have consequences in every subject in the future.
Also see Idea #50 for more about tutoring.
Cindy McKinley Alder Patti Trombly
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