Precerpt from In with the East Wind: A Mary Poppins Kind of Life - Cambodia

 


 Cambodia

I ended up in Cambodia for a brief working stay when I was invited to be the keynote speaker at CamTesol. I did not stay long enough to make lasting friendships, as I did in many countries, or to get much of an impression of the country (other than through reading and tourist brochures) beyond the capital. So, my memories of the county are episodic, incomplete. Nonetheless, I found meaning in the time I was there.

 

Mekong River

I don’t remember with whom I spent a couple of relaxing hours at a restaurant on the Mekong River outside Phnom Penh. I just remember a pleasant conversation and a sense of great relaxation, feeling as lazy as the river itself.

The Mekong River, stretching from the Tibetan Plateau through China, Myanmar, Laos, Thailand, Cambodia, and Vietnam, is Southeast Asia’s lifeline—a vast, slow-moving artery that nourishes millions. Its character is defined by breadth and patience: in places, the Mekong sprawls over two kilometers wide, its silty waters unfurling in lazy meanders that carve fertile floodplains and floating forests. Unlike the Amazon, which dwarfs nearly all rivers, the Mekong’s scale felt more intimate yet equally majestic—its expanse shaped by rhythm rather than magnitude, a river that seemed to breathe rather than rush.

In that, it brought me from my rushed trip and rushed to a place of peace. I felt myself absorbing its patience (not an inherent trait for me), and I noticed that my dinner companion did the same. It was indeed one of the gentlest dinners I have ever had.

 

Phnom Penh

By way of contrast, PhnomPenh, Cambodia’s restless capital, hummed with a rhythm that felt both improvised and unstoppable. The city’s arteries were crowded with tuk‑tuks — the motorcycle‑pulled carriages that everyone called by their onomatopoetic nickname, a word that seemed to capture both the sputter of the engine and the jostling of the ride. These open‑air trailers, often painted in bright reds and greens, wove through traffic with a kind of chaotic grace, their drivers leaning into turns as exhaust mingled with the scent of street‑side noodles and burning incense. A tuk‑tuk was more than transport; it stood as a symbol of PhnomPenh’s ingenuity, an adaptation born of necessity and sustained by the city’s appetite for motion.

Long before COVID‑19, nearly everyone on the street wore a mask — not as a public‑health precaution but as a basic survival tool. The air was thick with particulate matter, a visible haze that settled over boulevards and markets, making it difficult to breathe comfortably for more than a few minutes at a time. Drivers wrapped scarves around their faces; vendors tied cloth masks beneath their chins; schoolchildren walked in small clusters, each one masked against the dust and exhaust. It was simply part of life, an unspoken acknowledgment of the city’s environmental reality.

The streets themselves were a study in contrasts: gleaming high‑rises casting shadows over fading colonial façades, monks in saffron robes crossing boulevards lined with cafés, phone shops, and vendors selling iced coffee sweetened with condensed milk. The air carried the pulse of commerce and conversation, punctuated by the whine of engines and the laughter of families gathered around steaming bowls of kuy teav. PhnomPenh’s culture thrived on this collision of old and new — its people balancing reverence for tradition with a restless drive toward modernity. Beneath the bustle lay a deep resilience, a collective memory of rebuilding after loss, and a pride in the city’s ability to reinvent itself again and again.

To ride through PhnomPenh in a tuk‑tuk was to experience the city’s heartbeat firsthand: the blur of markets, the shimmer of the TonléSap River, the constant negotiation between speed and stillness. Every ride felt like a small act of survival and celebration, a reminder that the city moved not in straight lines but in improvisations — always adapting, always pressing forward.

 

TESOL/CamTESOL

TESOL is the field of Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages, an international umbrella for language‑teaching practice, research, and professional development. CamTESOL is Cambodia’s major annual TESOL conference, hosted in Phnom Penh, bringing together teachers, researchers, and policymakers from across Southeast Asia and beyond. In essence, TESOL is the global discipline, and CamTESOL is one of its vibrant regional hubs — a place where Cambodia’s educators connected with the wider world of English‑language teaching.

I have done a lot of work over the years with various regional hubs. The connection to International TESOL is what helps all these hubs stay years ahead of the educational system in general in all those places and stay on an even keel with each other and the larger field.

At the time, task-based instruction was a novelty and experts sought after. As such an expert, I was asked to keynote CamTesol that year. I am so glad I accepted. Not only was the keynote well received but also these teachers displayed openness to new concepts and immediately understood how to apply them to their own contexts. Throughout the conference, I learned more from them through their on-the-spot adaptations and sharing of what they were already doing in their classrooms than they likely learned from my short presentation. I guess that is what keynoting is all about: sharing and learning. It was not a one-way stream at CamTesol; it was a wide, meandering river with room for all kinds of adaptions from which I could drink and take drinks to other places (though I would never drink Mekong water with all its impossible-to-remove sediment…just saying; find a picture!)


From the forthcoming book:

In with the East Wind...A Mary Poppins Kind of Life

Volume 1: ABC Lands

by Dr. Betty Lou Leaver


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