How Does One Keep On Keeping On After a Disabling Event?

 


Not through heroics. Not through the glossy “resilience” language that gets tossed around so easily. You keep going by learning to live inside a smaller circle of energy and possibility, and then slowly discovering that life still exists there.

A disabling event redraws the map. The old routes disappear. The old assumptions about what your body can do, what your days will look like, what you can promise other people — all of it shifts. And the first truth is that you don’t “bounce back.” You build forward, with different materials.

You keep on by letting yourself grieve the version of life that ended. By accepting help even when it feels like defeat. By finding micro‑victories — the small tasks that remind you you’re still capable. By relearning your body without shame. By letting relationships recalibrate around what is real now, not what used to be. By allowing rest to be part of the work, not a failure of it.

Keeping on is not a single act. It’s a daily negotiation between what hurts, what’s possible, and what still matters. And slowly — sometimes very slowly — meaning begins to reassemble itself around the edges of limitation. Not in spite of the disability, but alongside it.

Life after a disabling event is smaller in some ways, yes. But it can also become deeper, quieter, more intentional. You keep on by choosing to inhabit the life you have now, with honesty, with patience, and with the quiet courage of someone who knows that forward is still possible — even if the path looks different than it used to.

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post inspired by One Simple Text . . . (Shaw & Brown)

Book description:

It was every parent's worst nightmare. On a sun-drenched morning in April 2012, a Maryland state trooper knocked on Betty Shaw's front door and delivered the grim news that her 17-year-old daughter, Liz, had been involved in a horrible car accident and was clinging to life.

Liz recovered from her life-threatening injuries but suffered severe and permanent effects from the accident. Texting while driving caused Liz's crash, and she and her mother went on a mission to educate people about the perils of distracted driving. The pair began to speak before various groups, and as their popularity grew, they launched a video about Liz's story which went viral, spawning magazine and online articles, as well as several TV appearances, including one on Oprah Winfrey's Where Are They Now? show.

In One Simple Text, Betty Shaw recounts her daughter's frightening and arduous but ultimately uplifting and inspirational journey. Betty chronicles Liz's ordeal from the day of the accident and provides a glimpse of their life on the speaking and television circuit. This is a poignant memoir about a young woman who triumphed over tragedy; a mother and daughter's love; and the indomitable power of the human spirit.


Awards
Hollywood Book Festival Honorable Mention
Kops-Fetherling International Book Awards: Legacy Award for
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story told on the Oprah Winfrey Show




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