Cancer Diary: If Only..
If only he had caught it earlier...
If only he had done due diligence with screening options (he had the insurance; there was no excuse)...
If only he had taken the colonoscopy seriously and not blown it off, thinking he was robust and cancer would never catch him...
If only he had noticed the drop in his activity level...
If only he had noticed his drop in interest in the daily tidbits of life...
If only had a good doctor who knew how to read cancer indications in a blood test and not relied on lack of pain meaning lack of illness ...
If only he had taken fitness training seriously and started losing weight...
If only he had done fitness training homework so he could start losing weight...
If only he accepted mortality sooner so he could get family and financial planning in hand, powers of attorney, last wishes, burial information--rather than leaving family scrambling and guessing...
If only he had considered end of life possibilities so he could have been ready for outreach to resources (in-house care, hospice) rather than scrambling to find them and then too late to be of much help...
If only had spent time before getting ill to plan what to do when/if got ill and put it in written form to make his death and the life that followed easier for his loved ones...
DEATH WOULD STILL HAVE ENCROACHED,
BUT "IF ONLY" MAY HAVE GIVEN LIFE A LITTLE LONGER LEASE
AND BROUGHT CONSIDERABLY MORE PEACE
AS DEATH APPROACHED.
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Blog editor's note: As a memorial to Carl, and simply because it is truly needed, MSI Press is now hosting a web page, Carl's Cancer Compendium, as a one-stop starting point for all things cancer, to make it easier for those with cancer to find answers to questions that can otherwise take hours to track down on the Internet and/or from professionals. The CCC is expanded and updated weekly. As part of this effort, each week, on Monday, this blog will carry an informative, cancer-related story -- and be open to guest posts: Cancer Diary.
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